Monday, April 15, 2024

Exhausting to be constantly funny, takes toll on mental health: Mallika Dua

Mallika Dua

Actor-comedian Mallika Dua says comics often feel the pressure to constantly perform and pretend to be happy, which is why it is important to draw a line and look after one’s mental health.
Dua shot to fame with her comedy sketches, often tackling Delhi stereotypes, four years ago and has since been a social media sensation.
The 31-year-old comedian said she started her comedy career purely out of fun, but soon realised that it can become an unhealthy loop of numbers and greed, one which has to be navigated with caution.
“I feel a lot of pressure, everyday. It takes a massive toll on your mental health. I didn’t start to appease anyone, it was purely out of my own happiness. It started as, ‘you are good at it, you should do more’ then it became ‘if you don’t do it, you won’t make money.’
“Then it transformed into ‘you must do it because others are doing it and you must be better than them.’ So there’s no end to it. I don’t post obsessively anymore. I don’t want to get caught up in the rat race of numbers,” Dua told PTI.
The actor said it is no secret in comedy business that many comics across the world go through depression.
“There’s something, this pressure to be constantly performing and pretending to be happy. We have to draw the line. It’s exhausting to be constantly funny,” she added.
Dua, who has previously featured in movies such as “Hindi Medium”, “Namaste England” and “Zero”, currently stars in “Indoo Ki Jawani”, which released countrywide on Friday.
Described as a coming-of-age comedy, “Indoo Ki Jawani” features Kiara Advani as a feisty girl from Ghaziabad whose left and right swipes on a dating app results in a hilarious chaos when she meets a Pakistani man, played by Aditya Seal.
Dua said she was instantly drawn to the Abir Sengupta-directed film because of its funny script and that the makers weren’t offering her the part of a “token best friend”, a character which she believes is mostly “underwritten” in Hindi cinema.
“It’s not that all protagonists’ friends are underwritten, it’s typically the women that are underwritten. If you look at ‘Stree’ or ‘Fukrey’, they have well written parts.
“That’s a problem for me, which is why I don’t say yes to a lot of the film’s that are offered, because it doesn’t really do anything for my career. It’s just time pass,” she added.
Dua said one of the reasons why there aren’t enough women in comedy is because it was never made aspirational for a woman to be funny.
The actor said every time a woman has showcased her sense of humour, she has been made to look like “an idiot”, which isn’t the case with men.
“For them, being funny is taken as a romantic attribute. But it’s changing now, thanks to pop culture. The next step would be if agents back their women artistes as hard as they back the male artistes,” she added. (PTI)